Hi there, we use cookies to improve your experience on our website. You can update your settings by clicking the Privacy policy link at the bottom of the page. I have not had sex before and I am not going to the country with the intention of having sex, and even if I wasn't traveling, I probably wouldn't. That being said, I'm about to turn 20, and who knows?
Maybe something changes, I meet somebody special. I'm not going to kid myself, I have hormones! Anyway, I don't want to take my assumptions for granted, I figured I should find out what laws may govern the subject even if are rarely enforced. Also, what is the societal reaction--when is a person considered a slut, or indecent? When is it relatively appropriate?
Some articles I've read regarding LGBT rights in the country specifically say homosexuality is not illegal per se when in private. Though, I am not a homosexual, but feel free to comment, it may help others! However, I read in the Jordan travel wiki that adultery which includes consenting, premarital sex is illegal and punishable by up to 3 years in prison, but this is not sourced. Also, when reading the fantastic blog, Black-Iris, it seems while, perhaps, frowned upon in certain situations or done to excess, premarital sex is not illegal, at least he doesn't mention legality which I would think would have been relevant enough to note in some of his articles.
I've lived in Amman for over 6 years now, and would suggest you go with what feels comfortable to you. Guys your age will be looking for marriage and a visa to your country, especially if it is the US or UK, so take any declarations of love with a grain of salt. Adultery is punishable--if caught, you're not married, but the guy is Jordanian women are bound by cultural norms Therefore, you can believe that the guys will be "curious" Be discreet, be safe, but more than anything, be true to yourself.
Sex outside of marriage is never considered 'relatively appropriate' That doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Ask your mom or dad - or better still grandma and grandpa how was this subject was viewed in their day and what the social reactions were and yes it did happen in their day too - and you will come near to understanding how this subject is viewed. Of course there is some hypocrasy, do as I say not do as I do etc, double standards and even worse.
